Dear Ms. Wilson:
I was saddened to hear the news of your breast cancer diagnosis, but happy to hear that you were diagnosed early and vigilantly received a second opinion, both from your oncologist but also a pathologist. I am also keenly aware of how important it is for people in the public eye to bring awareness to these types of issues and share their experiences. We are our own best advocates in this fight against breast cancer and I applaud you for speaking out to make sure others are aware of your situation!
I noted in today’s People article that you are expecting to make a full recovery. I am hopeful that is true for you. As you may not be aware, many of us suffering from Stage IV breast cancer, or Metastatic Breast Cancer (“MBC”) were once in your shoes. We took good care of ourselves. We were vigilant about our mammograms, we took all the prescribed medications and treatments prescribed by our oncologists, radiologists, and surgeons. We followed up regularly with our doctors and continued to perform regular self-checks. But for 30% of us, the breast cancer returned and had metastasized elsewhere in our bodies. Sometimes it’s within months, a year later, or as much as 5, 10, 15 or more years later. And it’s not clear to researchers why this happens to some of us and not others. Usually the breast cancer finds its way to the bones, the lungs, the liver, the brain, or a combination of same. And once it does – it’s lethal.
And then there are those like me, who were diagnosed Stage IV right out of the gate. We are given no glimmer ofhope for a cure at diagnosis, only the promise to be in treatment the rest of our lives in an effort to live as long as possible. My hope is simply to live long enough to see my two young sons graduate from high school, college and get married.
Upon a Stage IV diagnosis, all of us “Metsters” still have many of the same treatments – surgeries, hormone therapy, chemotherapy, radiation, gamma knife, etc., but there is no end in sight for us. When the one treatment ends, another begins. And it goes on and on until no more treatments remain or work, leaving us to die. And again, this is the outcome for 30% of those diagnosed with breast cancer, no matter what the initial stage.
So, my ask of you, as a well-liked and respected celebrity, is to have a voice for all of those that are DYING from breast cancer. Shout from the mountain tops that more money needs to be spent on research for Stage IV and finding a CURE! Prevention has worked – look at your own experience. We do not need the same exorbitantfunding for that part of breast cancer awareness that we once did. The message has been heard and women are taking care of themselves and advocating for second opinions and involved in determining the best treatments for themselves and managing their quality of life.
But for those of us, at no fault of our own, that are in the 30% that this disease kills – we need your help.
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I conclude by saying that I will pray for you every day to remain in the 70% of breast cancer survivors for the rest of your life. But I also want everyone to know that being in the 30% that are diagnosed with MBC is devastating, and we need to be heard.
The People article can be accessed at the link below.